Why does a person always come late? Behind this lies the astonishing science; You will be surprised to read

 

Research has shown that people with certain personality traits are always later than others.

We have been hearing ' Time is Money ' since childhood. Most of us know the value of time; But still some people always come late. They never manage to keep time. They know the importance of time. Yet they are always late. More information about this is available on the website 'Metro.co.uk'.

Lack of time is seen as a negative thing. Those who keep time at work or elsewhere get angry at those who come late. Anger is always expressed about those who do not keep time. Many people have bad relationships with people who do not follow the rules. That is why those who do not follow the time are said to have no manners or they are criticized for having more value for their own time than the time of others; But this is not always the case.

"I don't care about people or their feelings," says psychologist Somiya Zaman. For this, various issues need to be taken into consideration. Research has shown that people with certain personality traits are always later than others.

'Some people are optimistic and believe that we can manage everything, even in our extreme anxiety. We call them over schedulers, 'explained Somiya. "But if he has a habit of doing a lot of work at the same time every day, then he will always be late for something," she said. If such optimistic, gossipy people are in a group, then their meetings, appointments, going to dinner, all these things take longer than the allotted time. Naturally, they are late for everything.

Of course, sometimes such people will say no even when it is possible to hurt others or hurt their feelings. Or they may be afraid of losing an important opportunity.

Some people are the ones who delay. This means that such people are already involved in some other work. So they never get to where they want to go or what they want to do on time. Of course, such people are always worried. As a result, they sometimes find it difficult to move from one place to another.

'We all respond differently to our inner and outer expectations. This response is not conscious. It is the tendency to respond to a particular trait or trait, 'says Geraldine Joachim, a psychotherapist at Mind Your Business. Some people meet their inner expectations in a much better way than these external expectations. These outside expectations are imposed on them by society, the workplace and others. The expectation is to meet at a certain place at a certain time. It is imposed by those we meet, they say. Individuals who focus on these outside expectations are more time consuming. This is because they place more importance on outside responsibility. Those who prioritize fulfilling their own expectations are from a group that is not on time. Of course this is not rudeness. Such individuals often try to be on time; But they do not always succeed, he says. 

   It all has to do with your childhood. It all depends on what we have learned and how we have grown up. 'Parents of time keepers are either employed or working outside. So they had a fixed schedule. Naturally, children get used to it, 'says Carmel Moore, a time management expert at The One Moment Company.

It can happen against this too. Parents are often embarrassed if their children are late for school or drop out of school, and this is why when such children grow up and start working, they become a little too strict with time. She also says that some religious prayers or rituals make it a habit to keep time.

If a person is under a lot of stress, then the work ahead seems like a mountain. It seems impossible to climb the mountain, says Lucy Ironman, a psychological wellbeing facilitator at Vita Health Group. The effect of this stress is to prevent and therefore increase the stress. If a person's mental health is not good, it also affects his daily life.

Our mixed emotions affect our ability to manage time. It also affects small things like getting up early in the morning, getting ready, catching a bus or cooking. Secondly, it should be noted that our brain does not always work in the same way. Experts say that time management is a challenge even for neurodivers. Often such people have to struggle to do certain things on their own. So without knowing the reason, one should not always have negative feelings about not keeping time.

On the other hand, being late also has to do with the person's feelings. It also has to do with mental health. It affects everything in our life and our tendency to come sooner or later is no exception.

It is definitely not a good idea to be late for a meeting, for everything you have decided, and if you have no regrets about it or you have nothing to do with other people's time. If you are going all the time on time, it can be a nuisance to those who are late for you.

If your spouse or friend, family member or colleague is latecomer or always late, he or she will probably suffer; But keep in mind that the reasons behind not keeping time can also be complicated. For some, not keeping time is a sign of arrogance or neglect; But experts say it is wrong. It is not uncommon for someone to deliberately or intentionally waste your time. So don't think so. If someone is late, don't let it become your personal question. Doing so will ease your stress. Also, deal with such situations calmly and thoughtfully rather than angrily. It can also ease the stress of latecomers.

Ask them gently, 'Do you need any help?' Ask them out well if they are no longer absorbed in the connection. Maybe they are trying to arrive on time and if they are not convinced then these things of yours will help them. So think about why those who don't keep time are coming late. And think about which group you belong to.